Me!issa Sanddy

Nitez blog….it’s 11:18 pm in jakarta…he2 i just wanna write down the things happend with me in these three days (friday, saturday and sunday) to be a memory for my personal when once in my lifetime i would like to look back to my past time. he2

These 3 days in my life is fun and colourful actually he2 i spent my time by sharing great time with my frenz…start with my friday morning i’m signing my contract with my upcoming next bozz…and spent time with my new upcoming frenz that i’ve to face in the next one year…still kind of stiff i feel but i’ll figure out how i’ll get closed to them in the process…then i spent my night with my bestfriend…hang out time again he2 quite a long time not hanging out completely…we bought some ingrediants to cook and make a special homemade dishes hahaha cooked by ourself so it taste good surely hoho….”rebush2 with sawi IDR 9000 and cumi dua rasa” yummyyyy…. and talking2…so glad piggy and sop2 is okay now…wish we’ll be like this always…understand each other and be there for each other when needed… In the next morning we started our day by swimming then cook again but simple dishes comes up with “kangkung dan martabak mie” ala mba wati n mba depi haha….then touring to mangga dua to find souvenir (get lost a little bit he2) then going to pasar festival and ends up with epicentrum walk , the new mall in jakarta –> nice XXI and nice movie too…he2 we’ve faced a lot of things from hot to cold rain…from tired to fun…from sweaty till dry…but overall it’s a great adventure for one day and good memory for me…luv u all guys..he2

Then, suddenly it’s sundayyyyy….i started my day with sop2 to the church then had badminton time with ci best and his new bf and then headed to central park to hear “khotbah” then taking picture with nanz and ci best and shopping time with them too ( hehe girl2 can’t away from shopping although it’s just low cost shopping or fantastic cost shopping) he2… then ends up with watching “my name is khan” huhu really nice and 4 thumbs up movie dahhhh…teach us about:

1. don’t differenciate one to another from their rasis or religion…people all is just the same there is only 2 type GOOD or BAD guy…which one is we grouped into?

2. Autis person can do a great job in his life and given the ability too…so see everybody in this world come with their own power to make this world into a better place…

3. Don;t fight bad with bad things…it raised nothing except more bad things… fight bad things with good things…

He2 the end of the story from mel today….wish tomorrow be a better place for us and nitez blogz 🙂

Afternoon blogzzz…this article is just nice…i wanna keep it here to read it again when i down and start thinking negatively…:D

KOMPAS.com – Kehidupan identik dengan konflik, dan sifatnya naik-turun (fluktuatif). Cara kita menyikapi problem atau konflik akan menjadi penentu, apakah kita akan terpuruk, ataukah menjadi pribadi yang kaya akan pengalaman hidup.

Seburuk apa pun yang kita alami, menurut psikolog Rose Mini AP, MPsi, hidup tetap harus dipandang dari segi positif. ”Jika semua kita pandang negatif, maka kita membentuk diri membentengi dari berbagai hal yang sebenarnya bisa membuat kita lebih maju,” ungkap Rommy, panggilan akrabnya, dalam talkshow “Masakan Ibu-Cinta, Kreasi, dan Apresiasi” yang diadakan oleh Royco beberapa waktu lalu.

Rommy membagi tiga tipe orang dalam menghadapi tantangan hidup. Ia menunjuk gelas terisi separuh air, dan bertanya apa yang kita lihat dari pemandangan yang ada? Hasilnya:
1. Gelas setengah kosong. Pertanda orang yang pesimis.
2. Gelas setengah isi. Pertanda orang yang agak optimis.
3. Gelas yang sebentar lagi akan penuh. Pertanda orang yang optimis.

Demikian pula saat kita menghadapi masalah. Jika Anda memandangnya dari segi positif, niscaya Anda akan selalu semangat melihat kesulitan sebagai tantangan dalam memperbaiki diri. Anggap saja setiap cobaan adalah ujian untuk Anda “naik kelas”.

Jika Anda lulus atau bisa melewati hal itu, maka Anda akan naik ke tahapan yang lebih tinggi dalam kehidupan. ”Tidak ada orang yang tidak punya konflik dalam hidupnya. Tanamkan pikiran positif dalam tiap keadaan,” imbuh Rommy. Buatlah setiap hambatan atau ganjalan dalam hidup sebagai tantangan.

Selanjutnya, Anda akan punya rasa percaya diri dalam menghadapi banyak tantangan. ”Punya rasa percaya diri itu nikmat luar biasa. Jangan terus mengeluh dan uring-uringan. Anda tidak akan pernah bisa maju,” ungkapnya.

Berpikir positif juga bisa mengurangi rasa stres, sehingga Anda mengurangi kemungkinan terserang jantung dan stroke.

Nitez.. blog…he2 just wanna say that i really2 wanna wanna go to BALIIIIIIIIIII…. the land that called paradise land by foreigner. I’m indonesian girl but not yet get a chance to go there haha…..luv the beach in BALIIII wish can spend my next holiday to Bali with my famz or fren…..BALI I’M GONNA VISIT U !!!!!!!!! =))

Gud afternoon blogz..it’s now 12:37 pm located in my kos while listening to the songs “i could sing of Urlove 4ever” .hehe. Now i wanna write down about the thing called “pride, prestige, self esteem” or whatever its called. This is the feeling that man have in this human world included me of course. Sometimes man want to buy something really expensive just to show up their prestige. Sometimes man feel really great when they can defeat others in a life competition like get flying colours, get a great job, get a super duper handsome/pretty boy/girl, have a rich parents, have BMW, have luxury house, have recently released Blackberry, get a big salary, have a chance to going abroad, get a compliment from others, etc. It’s fine if u feel it when u get or have those and be thankful for those u have, but it become bad if u keep prouding of those things all of the time. huh!!!!! it’s make us sick if so. Well sometimes i feel it too and i really wanna kick my head down haha.

One think to remind us is that: there is nothing worthed for u too be proud that much except that we have good heart. Proud u have handsome girl/boy yeahhhh they will be get older one time, flying colours gal? oh no its just a mark don’t mean u absurb all the knowledge, get big salary –> a lot of people get bigger than u girl, get a great job –> yeah gudluck but job is good if u can use ur job to give the best for others and others are going to work abroad, released blackberry –> next month we’ll get the new one again haha, have a rich parents–>well don;t be too proud of it be mature and independence since now cause who know bankrupt is coming , have BMW –> can’t be kidnapped or being theft so be carefull….

See….nothing is last forever…so don’t be too proud of what u have now girl it’s all just short term fantasy. Sometime the pride makes up stop moving forward cause we’re just keep stuck in the pride. Sometime it’s make us get lost cause we’re just too busy to win others and can’t build ourselves in better way.

Get one of those luck above, sure we have to thanks God for that but dun’t stuck in that kind of over pride. So girl….be realized what u have is nothing….dun’t stuck in ur own pride…keep build urself for becoming better person in your life 🙂

“There is a mountain…but look forward u there is a bigger or even a giant mountain”  ^________^

Nite my dear blogzzz… it’s 10:55 pm in jakarta. It’s saturday night and i just arrived at home and waiting for felling asleep. Tonight i wanna write about “Amazing Path of Man’s Life”..

I feel that God is just soooo great and a great novelist…. He writes and create a story of Man’s Life and each story is just so unique and amazing. Each Man is sent to the earth to bring a special order which is to be a light for others and they are given some abilities. Some are given 5 abilities, some are 3, and some are 2….They are going to use and grow up their abilities to bear something moreee . So they have to find out their abilities… and no one come to the earth without any purpose or abilities that given to them , just need time and works to find it out.

Hearing from my friends stories…in career path…some my high school friends are having a chance to work and enlarge their wings to work in abroad…being a aeroplane technician, being a steward, being a games character creator, chasing chance to work in singapore. Some are working in indonesia with their own interest….In loving life, some still finding their right one, some already find them but get some trouble, some are in a relationship, some are about starting their new chapter of their life “marriage”. 

This is the words that I find in someone notes: “Tuhan memberi yang terbaik menurut Kasih-Nya, bukan menurut cara saya”.. he2 means that some time what we think that the best perhaps is not best enough for us but keep believing that there is always the best available for us. One true story from tv that I’ve ever watched. It was telling about the love story of a indonesian handicap girl and have been stuck almost her lifetime in wheelchair..fuih…(blessed us who have perfect body)…it must be a hard life for her…can’t move a lot, felt being others burden, feeling inferiority…but seems that this girl is never stop doing something for her life and others. In nowdays world where man mostly looks girl from their body in the first sight not with their heart…how can it possible that a handicap girl found a man that will love her and protect her in her lifetime?? That’s time I was amazed that she finally find her love with a foreigner which is in my sight is handsome and normal guy. How can it be right?? The man looks so in love with the girl which is not perfect but have a great heart…See….That is how God works in our lives and the miracle works in His way.

So, I’m 22 years old…I’m in one path of my life that I’ve finished my bachelor degree, want to jump into working life, having lot of dreams that i wish i can make it in my next path of my life…I’m curious bout my own life story…what is my next story yachhh…..what kind of love that i will find in my way, what kind of career path that I will have, can I be a man that others need…..he2 what kind of story that is God written for me?? I will find it out and enjoy each process in my life…my life in 22, my life in 23, my life in 24 , etc. =)) oh ya i wish can communicate to new person comes to my life easier…>.<

The end~May 8th 2010

Sleep now z…Z he2

hi my blogz…its 3:00 p.m in jakarta. Great sunday, but get bored, wanna going out but thinking that i’ve wasted a lot of money got from my sister n my parents made me comes up my mind to just stay at my home sweet home…uupsss its not belongs to me officially haha…

now i wanna write about planning for future…at a glance in my boring time while i’m washing, i thinking of how i would be in my future. People said that future is mystery and we build it from now. Future comes from dream-hardworks and fight for it then it’s comes true if it’s your faith(keep believing).  Oh ya, i’m about of having the job that i think it’s what i want to learn as my first job, which is being IT audit. I thanks God for every chance that comes to me, failure or success in the process of finding my dream job. He helps me decide and accompany me for every step in my life. I’ve never gonna regret everything happend in my life of my own choice cause it helps me grow up. Back to the topic, i was just thinking of how can I manage my money to build my future. Hearding from piw to buy a house need 500 million and it’s without swimming pool of course >.<. fiuh… if i can save 2 million only every month, a year mean 24 million only and 500/24 = 20 years …omg it’s took my lifetime just to own a house…haha…just thinking that being a worker is definitely not gonna makes you rich. Need passive income for sure. Lucky for the one that born rich and get everything they want just by asking or point their finger — > they should thanks god and share it with other need it for sure. haha but thinking possitively, the thing that you get it with effort is the one you appreciate more.

So, what should this girl do to have all of it?? For sure, I’m planning to save my money as save as I could and eliminate cost for nothing, invest my money for something can give me passive income. My dream: continue study in abroad, experience working abroad. The next 10 years if I open my blog i curious will my dreams comes true? ^____^ really2 hope so….nothing to lose right for having a dream since dream is still free. Fighting2 mel…

Next, talking bout my love life. I’m curious when I will find my right one that will makes me fall in luv, feel loved and wanna share my love to.  my friends just about to get married wow pretty big step haha…I just thinking that so happy for them that find their love like my sister, like gab although still no respond but at least she feel in loved with someone, ike although long distance. Destiny brings two man in love. So, be thankful for finding your love girl. haha especially ike if you read this.

For now, i just wish that can have my own money soon to make my parent and famz happy and can help others with it.

~The End ~ bye blogz

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Nitez blogzzzz its 6:22 pm in jakarta… locate in syahdan cause the light is off and my cost is pretty damn hottt, using sop2 laptop n hearing her singing..he2…

blogz, i want to write a thing  called decision.  decision is stick in our live wherever we go. sometimes people hard to make her choice. like want to eat a or b, want to go there or just be here, etc.  why??? cause they think too much, consider too much or the worst is they don’t know what they want till get confused of which one they have to choose. sometimes people are pushed to take decision they don’t want to take caused they got no choice except doing that. but thinking of that makes me think if that is the best choice for them.

Ive heard a story from email about deciding. The story is about a boy riding a bicycle with a man behind considering he was Jesus or the spirit protecting us. then when face a route of way the boy confused which way he has to take then ask the man which way to take. and he took the wrong way cause can’t hear the man’s word. so the boy took a longggg way just to arrived in the end otherwise if the boy took the way told by the man, it would be faster to arrive there.

what i can take from the story is that “Deciding for sure is about pick one following ur heart and brave to face all the result and never regret it or look back for it. God will show the way u still get there just in your own way whether is longer or faster. as long as we don;t lost of faith and keep up working.”

Nitezzzz my dear blog…today is 14th March 2010 9:56 p.m in jakarta. Todayyy i’mmm really happyyyy and having fun with my friends nancy, joko, mamat, putri :D…and wasting money to 🙁 (today is the last day i’m wasting money i promise no more fun till i get my job). We start our adventure from CL at 8 : 00 a.m to busway from CL stop by in harmoni change to stasiun kota and we arrived at museum mandiri.

First Destination : Museum Mandiri

he2 it’s my first time since my lifetime to get in a museum haha and i find it very interested not just for taking picture but can see a lot of old stuff start from old picture of mandiri founder, mesin ketik, server, computer jadul… , deposito, telepon, stampel all is jadoellll he2 fun2 and we take a lot of pictureeee in there…

Second Destination : Kota Tua

Finally i can reach kota tua….we’ve ever plan it to go there after softcover or hardcover with piggy sop2 yuli dkk but finally with their own busy we can’t make it unfortunately :(. So happy i can’t make it there and having new experience. In there there a lot of object really jadoeelll hehe very suit with its name kota TUA…first we visited museum wayang and see a lot of wayang, old java musical instrument, wayang small theatre hahaha and taking picture there….very interesting…thennnn there old bicycleee and meriam…and find a lot of young or old people that really serious in photography taking picture of an objects…seems really proffesional…we finish our visit to kota tua to stasiun kota and enjoy our lunch A & W. Kota Tua nice place to taking picture and visit actually…he2

Third Destination : Monass actually haha butttt it’s hotttt and at last we prefer to go to Grand Indonesia

So we continue our adventure going back to busway and stop by in Grand Indonesia and take picture for a while for Bundaran Indonesia with its beautiful air mancur hehe…then watching air mancur show at 3A floor west at GI soooo attractiveeeeee and beautifullll with its colour, movement, show. Then we’re going to have photobox..and having drink.

Fourth Destination : TA – CP

We’re just having dinner together at hachi2 bistro he2 sharing and it makes the food taste good when we eat together likes it and the cost is lighter…haha then i’m going to the church in 13th floor in central park and listen a good khotbah actually. The priece say : “Ask largerly, give largely, ask other to give largely …nothing is afraid us cause God stay in us, He is Great and it’s proven”. Sometimes i just ask shortly cause i just think that god know the best for me and i rarely asked then…i have to ask largelyyy noww he2 nothing impossible…than give 100% for everything i do is it to do my job or treat others have to 100% good although sometime other don;t think or appreciate what u do for them or betray u or anything bad as the feedback. then ask other to give largely –> not really understand this one actually he2

Overall thanks J for everything happend to me today…happy for knowing my friends better nanz story, mamat personality, joko story, putri story and strict advice for u melll stop it wasting … job…job..job…come…come…:D